Vision. In the 1960's Dr. David Hubel and Dr. Torsten Wiesel found that vision does not develop
normally in cats if the eye and brain fail to make connections during a critical window of time
in early life. In the test, one eye of the kittens was held closed after birth. After several
weeks the restraint was removed and none of the kittens could see out of the eye that had been
closed, even though it was perfectly normal.
There are several ways to stimulate vision. Try a mobile over the baby's bed, or black and white
picture patterns. Your baby likes to look at objects held about 8 to 15 inches in front of him.
Language. Children whose parents talk to them frequently have better language skills than do
children of parents who seldom talk to them. Research studies have shown that babies whose parent
talked to them more had a more extensive vocabulary. At 20 months, babies of talkative parents
knew 131 more words than infants of less talkative parents. At 24 months, the difference was 295.
Brain Power. Mice and rats raised in enriched environments, with toys and playmates, have
billions more connections between brain cells and are better learners than mice and rats raised
alone in empty cages.
Play is a good infant stimulation.
Toys do not have to be expensive, and can include pots, pans, and boxes. Toys and books are the
tools of childhood. Dr. Stanley Greenspan's "The Challenging Child," coined the phrase "floor time."
It means getting down on the floor and playing with your child. This starts at a very young age
and progresses into "Candyland" and kick ball. Raising a child is not a spectator sport. Be
involved in play with your child in the lead.
Aggression. Exposure to violence can hinder a child's ability to learn. "Children living with some
chronic threat, domestic or community violence or physical abuse, continue to act fearful even
when they are in school," said Dr. Bruce D. Perry, director of the Child Trauma Program at Baylor
College of Medicine in Houston.
Constant exposure to an unpredictable, threatening environment causes the brain to repeatedly
activate the brain systems that respond to threat or stress. Over time, fear becomes so
ingrained that it becomes the child's normal state. The result is disastrous for children trying
to learn.
"A torn jacket is soon mended, but harsh words
bruise the heart of a child." - Longfellow
A child held and nurtured in a time of stress is less likely to respond with violence later.
There is great medicine in a hug.
Touch. Touching is the way babies learn. Premature infants whose sensory systems are activated
by being held and cuddled are more mentally alert and physically stronger than those who are isolated in incubators.
There are many activities you can play with your child as he grows. The aim can be fun, but many
such activities will also help him develop and use his brain.
A positive circle
A premise in education is that we learn what matters to us. During these early years, an enriched
curiosity and good language skills will lay the foundation for a child. It is a positive circle.
The more a child explores and is exposed to new situations, the more that will matter to him, and
the more he will want to learn.
A wonderful tradition as your child grows older can begin at your family's dinner table by asking
your child, "What did you learn today?" As your child grows, it will be a routine part of the meal.
A friend I knew would send her child to the encyclopedia for a morsel of information if she did not
come to the table prepared for a discussion.
Unique and special qualities
It has taken hundreds of thousands of years to arrive at the birth of your very special child.
Just think of parents, grandparents and great grandparents whose decisions and genes contributed
to your child. If just one had moved to another city or country, the entire pattern would have
been changed.
In your child, you have created a new individual, born with her own unique set of special qualities.
Your child is now beginning a journey which could span 100 years. The time you spend or don't
spend with your child during the first few years can dramatically affect his or her entire life.
Make the commitment to know your child. There is no greater gift a parent can give.
It is also important to help all children because many of them will be your child's future friend,
fellow employee, neighbor, wife or husband. Every child is our child.
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Written by Dennis Dunn, Publisher, and Nancy Kleckner, Editor